What is an inappropriate response by a teacher when a student discloses dating violence?

• A. Blame the student or imply it's their fault.
• B. Provide a supportive listener and resources.
• C. Encourage the student to seek help and report.
• D. Document and report per policy.

Answer: (A)

When a student discloses dating violence, the teacher’s response should be supportive, nonjudgmental, and focused on safety and connecting the student with help. Blaming the student or implying it’s their fault is inappropriate because it puts the burden on the survivor, can retraumatize them, creates fear about disclosing again, and undermines trust in adults who are meant to help. This kind of response also perpetuates the stigma around survivor experiences and may discourage the student from seeking the support they need.

In contrast, responding with a listening, supportive stance and offering resources, encouraging the student to seek help and report, and documenting and reporting per policy are all appropriate actions. These approaches validate the student’s experience, help ensure their safety, and connect them with necessary supports and school or community reporting procedures.