Which behavioral change is a red flag that a teen may be experiencing dating violence?

• A. Withdrawal from friends and family
• B. Increased self-confidence
• C. More participation in clubs
• D. Improved grades

Answer: (A)

Withdrawal from friends and family signals a red flag because dating violence often uses isolation to gain control. When a teen experiences coercive or controlling behavior, they may pull away from trusted people to avoid questions, judgment, or retaliation, making it harder to seek help. This change can show up as skipping social events, avoiding conversations about the relationship, or not sharing plans with people who support them. The other options describe positive or neutral changes—growing self-confidence, more club involvement, or better grades—that Reflect personal development or increased support and don’t by themselves indicate abuse. If a student starts isolating themselves, it’s important to check in privately in a nonjudgmental way, listen, and offer support and resources.